Attraction is a funny thing, but more than that, it is personal. When it comes to finding a partner, our personal preferences include everything from education to personal style.
However, one thing that many people look for in a spouse is the right height.
Here’s How Important Height is to Guys:
Most guys consider height when looking for a girlfriend. However, while being too short or tall may be a problem for one guy, it might be perfect for another. Depending on personal preference and attraction, height may or may not matter at all.
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How Much Do Girl’s Height Mean To Guys?
Height is an important trait that men look for in girls for many different reasons. The main reason is that most men like to feel masculine when in a relationship.
They paint themselves as the protector, and to them, being taller than the woman they are dating means that they are in a better position to protect the girl.
Experts say that height is only important to around 76% of men looking for a match. With such a large percentage, it makes you wonder what is going on in the inner workings of a man’s mind.
There is a great deal of psychology behind why men think this way. Most of the time, it is ingrained in them due to social pressures.
Societal expectations dictate that women should be shorter than their male partners. While this might be a very outdated idea, many men still think that this is the norm.
While the way men view women is constantly evolving, getting past trivial things like height still seems to be an uphill battle.
What Is The Perfect Height For A Girl?
There is no “perfect height” because the spectrum is so wide. It all depends on the height of the guy.
When talking about tall men, we generally are talking about the men who are at least 5’10” and higher.
The average height of a woman is 5’4″ while the average height of a man is 5’10”.
Her Height Depends on His Height:
Taller men prefer the women they date to be no taller than 5’9″ and no shorter than 5’3″.
Shorter men, however, are much less particular when it comes to height. The main thing for them is that the girl is shorter than them.
With the average height of a short man being 5’6″, the “perfect” height for short men is anywhere from 5’4″ and under.
While a preferred height depends on the height of a man, studies show that the average height that is most desirable among men is 5’6″.
Why is it Like This?
Studies show some real science behind the way a man thinks about a woman’s height. Common misconceptions come into play.
For decades people have been saying that taller women are more successful, attractive, and even more educated than shorter women. While there isn’t anything to back this up, it is still a common way that people think.
Also, men tend to equate looks with health. So, in their minds, the taller the woman, the healthier they will be, which also means that they will have a longer life together.
While this is completely unfounded, it is hard to break that psychology that men have about how women look.
Does Height Matter More Than Personality To Men?
Personality is a huge factor in not only attraction but also compatibility.
We tend to look for a partner who mirrors our personality in many ways, from liking the same things to even having the same sense of humor.
Once you find someone who has a personality that matches yours, that is something special no matter what height you are.
There is still a very small percentage of men who would rather have an attractive, shorter girlfriend instead of someone who matches their personality. Avoiding this type of toxic thinking is the best way to keep your dignity and heart intact.
After all, men are not the only ones who get to decide who is worth their time!
Do Men Get Turned Off By Tall Women?
For some men, women that are taller than them are a bit of a turn-off.
This can feel like a personal attack since it is based on a quick judgment based solely on your height. Be assured in knowing that it has very little to do with you.
Men who are quick to judge a woman’s appearance usually have insecurities of their own. They also might think that you don’t meet a societal standard that they need to accept.
Society has been telling men that they need to be bigger and stronger than women. Therefore, men can sometimes be more concerned about how other men see their girlfriend than how they see her themselves.
However, men who are more secure in themselves tend to love tall women. There is something powerful about a woman who can tower over their boyfriend.
While taller women turn some men off, most, if not all men, find women who have confidence in themselves extremely attractive. So, no matter your height, stand tall and accept it with pride.
While your height may seem like a dealbreaker to the guy you have your sights set on, perhaps the more he gets to know you, the more he will be able to see past the extra few inches you have on him.
Once that happens, the two of you can get to know each other on a deeper level, making your relationship stronger in the long run.
After all, the end game is finding that one person you want to share your life with. Don’t let your height hold you back!
Do Men Prefer Girls In High Heels?
There is nothing sexier to a man than a woman who has to confidence to strut around in shoes that are certainly killing her feet. Behind the blisters and the cramped toes is a lot of self-worth and confidence.
So, do men prefer girls in high heels? Yes, they do!
High heels are often directly connected to attractiveness. It isn’t only the extra inches these precious pumps offer either!
High heels completely change a woman’s stature. It forces you to stand tall with your shoulders back, which works wonders for your body!
It gives the illusion of better posture, but it can also make your other body parts seem more appealing – such as your legs, chest, back, and bottom.
Also, most women wear high heels for no one other than themselves! As a short girl, I know the power that that perfect pair of pumps holds for me.
Most men prefer to date women shorter than them, while women still prefer taller men.
It may seem silly to split hairs with something as small as how tall someone is, but I’ve learned that it has very little to do with the actual inches and much more to do with perception. Image is very important to a lot of people.
In the case of men who are dating, the image of being the stronger sex is what they want. Don’t let that discourage you from making bold moves and putting yourself out there.
I promise you that when you connect with someone on a deeper level, something like your height will not stop either of you from exploring that connection.